Seven Year Summer

Author: Anna Byrne

Anna is an acquaintance and when her book first came out I didn’t read it. Pat sent it off to Kathryn and both of them gave it a good review. I thought that was the end of it. Anna is now offering a three-week Book Circle based on her book and I decided to join. Although I’ll get a copy of the book at the first session I borrowed a copy from the library so I could get a head start.

Anna was diagnosed with cancer when she was in her early 30’s. She received treatment and was in remission but the cancer came back three more times. The book is a memoir of her cancer journey as well as the story of her work as a hospice volunteer as she visits Eleanor, a patient in the last month before her death.

Preparing for the Book Circle takes some time. Each session we will be reviewing specific sections of the book with thoughts on what is lost when you die, what of you remains after your death, and how those answers guide you in how you live the rest of your life.

Although I didn’t particularly enjoy the book I’m looking forward to the Circle.

Goodreads Rating: * * *

I felt a little guilty

Friday, November 3, 2023

We had a good trip over to the Island on Wednesday and then back home on Thursday. We got our Costco shopping done before we met Peggy and Bill for lunch. We were able to check into the hotel early so I had a chance to nap in the afternoon. Had it not been for Peggy and Bill we’d have totally messed up the concert venue. We thought we were headed to the Little Red Church in Comox and we were supposed to be going to the Old Church in Courtenay.

The concert was great even though Pat and I couldn’t get seats together. It worked out well as I had a good seat next to the inside wall of the aisle so there was no getting up and down to let people past and Pat sat up in the sound booth. He knew both the event organizer (he stayed with us for one of the Cran Hall concerts) and the sound guy (who worked one of the Texada festivals with Pat). We came home with four CD’s (good thing there was room for all of them in the new player) – Connie’s new one, two from one of her sons and one from the other son. We stayed and chatted with Connie and family after the show; they all stayed with us when Pat arranged a concert here prior to the Covid shutdown. I listened to all of the CDs this afternoon and enjoyed them almost better than the live performances. Does it make me bilingual if I like the French version of one of the CDs better than the English version?

Not much happened yesterday. I spent all afternoon downstairs hoping to see some water polo. I finally gave up trying to find a schedule and sent a message to Tracie. She was able to tell me where to keep looking and an approximate time for the game. Brodie wasn’t playing but I saw him on the sidelines – does he ever look like Kevin. I tried to find today’s game but didn’t have any luck and I can’t even find out whether they won or lost.

Last night was a Guild meeting and when I got home we watched the last period of a Canucks hockey game. The Canucks are on fire this year (so far). Could it be because we are following them again?

While I listened to my CDs this afternoon I finished my first Bauble. I sure hope the remaining 13 are easier for me. But now that I see the number left I’m thinking I may still be in trouble. I felt a little guilty as I sat at my stitching desk in front of the window and watched Sophie, our gardener, outside pulling weeds.

Happy Hallowe’en

Tuesday, October 31, 2023

I intended to go sewing with the Guild today but I spent so much time downstairs yesterday listening to music I didn’t get very far on my quilting. I really want to get this quilted and bound before the Texada retreat so I decided my time was better spent at home working on that. I have about another day’s work left and I’ll be ready to cut and attach the binding. I’ll do the hand stitching at the retreat at the end of the day when I’ve run out of steam to do anything that requires thinking.

A couple of weeks ago I was visiting a friend in hospital and then a week later I couldn’t see her because she was in isolation. I had word she was home from the hospital late last week so I called her this morning and she said she was feeling up to having some company. I took tea with me because I didn’t want her to have to put out any effort on my behalf. Her sister was there as well so the tea didn’t go as far but Shirley got two cups. We had a nice visit and I was glad that she was very much improved from her time in hospital.

We aren’t expecting anyone for Hallowe’en and we will turn the lights off in case anyone happens to be in the neighbourhood. It is a nice day and will be a good evening for anyone who is out.

We’re off to the Island tomorrow for a concert and a shopping trip to Costco. We’re seeing Connie Kaldor and I’m looking forward to a show in a venue other than the Hall. I have our shopping list ready – a keep a running list of things we have bought there and just refer to it on the next trip. The list isn’t as long as I thought it might be but there is still a lot on in it and we usually pick up one or two things that weren’t on the list.

For the rest of the afternoon I’ll do a bit more work on my Baubles.

So many choices

Monday, October 30, 2023

One of the hardest things about writing my Journal is coming up with a catchy (or not-so-catchy) title. All through the day I’m thinking of things I might write about and titles that come to mind. Today there were an abundance of ideas for titles.

I Should Have Given Up

I wanted to sit in the sunshine yesterday afternoon and my stitching table is in the perfect spot. I was ready to move ahead with my Baubles project. When I put it away last I realized I had made another mistake and was going to have to either take out some stitches or abandon the project entirely.

Today I felt more like taking out stitches than I did giving up so I did the reverse stitching that was required and moved on. I’m now one row of stitching beyond where I was yesterday and I hope I can continue on the right track. I’m stubborn enough to keep at it and the project doesn’t have a home so there is no rush to get it done.

Who Needs a Bird Feeder?

For the past few days we’ve had a bird making itself at home in one of the pots on the deck. Pat’s not sure what kind of bird it is but we’re having fun watching it. There must be something good in those marigolds. Can I hope that it is eating the weed seeds?


I May Never Go Upstairs Again

The woman from Texada delivered our new-to-us CD player to our door this morning and Pat wasted no time getting it set up. There were a few CDs included in the player, mostly Country and Western, and I kept most of them in. I started adding my own CDs and when I still had a few slots left I added some of Pat’s.

One of the CD players we had in the living room quit working quite awhile ago but we’d never done anything about it; they don’t make players anymore and we were lucky to find one for sale. Yesterday I pulled out all the CDs from it and Pat took it out of the stand this morning and got it ready to recycle. But he happened to check online and he thinks that he’ll be able to fix it with a $13 purchase of some new rollers. If it works we’ll have two players downstairs in Pat’s area and one in the living room.

We started listening to the music this morning and I don’t want to stop; I may never come upstairs to sew again. I guess it’s a good thing that I have the Baubles project to work on … forever at the rate I’m going!